HARD AS
NAILS
Breaking the stereotypes that hold blokes back.
Over 400 men painted their nails. We measured what happened. The results changed everything we thought we knew about how men shift.
Brave Males. Great Nails.
hard as nails
Hard As Nails is a national experiment that backs blokes to publicly challenge the stereotypes that stop them being the best partners, fathers, brothers, leaders, friends, and role models — through the bold act of spending a week with painted nails.
This is a grassroots initiative created by two blokes who care a lot about the men and women in their lives — and everyone in between — and who could see that the conversation about masculinity kept ending up on the blame rather than the brave.
Two pilot studies. Over 400 men. Validated psychological scales. A control group. Proper academic oversight. And results that surprised everyone — including us.
Men who took part saw rigid masculinity norms drop — and stay down six weeks later. 83% had conversations they’d never have had. Anxiety about being judged fell from 48% to 21%. 38% more likely to step in when something’s not right. 88% believe this could enable midlife men to mentor younger men. And empathy didn’t just rise — it kept rising weeks after the nails came off.
This isn’t a vibe check. We measured it properly. And now we’re taking it national.
Our goal is 350,000 men by 2030. That’s 3.5% of midlife men in the UK — the number researchers say is needed to tip the culture. We launch in October 2026.
"getting my nails made me uncomfortable sure; but that led to greater understanding, better conversations, and deeper connections."
HARD AS NAILS RESEARCH PARTICIPANT 2024
HOW IT BEGAN
Hard As Nails on Sky News
It started with a dad agreeing — reluctantly — to paint his nails for his daughter’s birthday trip to see Harry Styles.
When the Shellacs didn’t come off quickly, Sam Conniff found himself in the middle of an accidental social experiment. His new nails led to unexpected conversations — from pronouns to violence against women. When he wrote about the experience, hundreds encouraged him to find out if this small, bold act could lead to something bigger.
Daniele Fiandaca read Sam’s story and got in touch. Daniele runs men’s groups and had spent years working on how to bring men into conversations about equality without making them feel lectured at. He saw something in the nail-painting idea that his work had been missing — a way in that didn’t start with an apology.
Together, they ran two pilot studies, published the results, and invited men from all backgrounds to get involved. The early evidence was clear: something shifted. Not just in how men talked, but in how they felt.
Hard As Nails:
created by two blokes, for all blokes, to explore and expand what it means to be a good man — one painted nail at a time.
HOW IT’S GOING
Two pilots are done. Over 400 men took part. The data is in. The results are published. And now we’re building towards something bigger.
In October 2026, Hard As Nails goes national. The ambition is bold but evidence-backed: 350,000 men by 2030. That’s the number needed to tip the culture.
We’re working with salons, community spaces, workplaces, and partners across the UK to make it happen. Every participant gets measured. Every activation adds to the dataset. This isn’t a stunt. It’s a movement with a scoreboard.
NAILING IT
At its core, Hard As Nails is about challenging outdated norms, expanding the definition of masculinity, and improving men’s mental health.
Our ambition? To create an annual event that sparks a measurable cultural shift—on par with movements like Movember.
Our initial research suggests that small, bold acts like nail painting can lead to measurable change.
Wave one of Hard As Nails ended on 30th March and now our science and behaviour change team are looking at the results and reflections from the participants. Our ambition is to share these with everyone in April 2025.
100% of participants said the experience was positive, ranging from increased empathy to improved mental health.
“It gave me a chance to challenge myself in a way I never expected—and I felt stronger for it.”
“Painting my nails started conversations that never would have happened otherwise.”
“It’s not about nails—it’s about redefining masculinity for the better.”
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