Who backs Hard As Nails

We're not a community. These are.

Hard As Nails is six weeks. It isn't a place to belong to, and we're not trying to build one.

What we can do is know where to send you next. Every organisation on this page backs this experiment, and every one of them will still be there in December.

Start with what you need right now.

How this works

The organisations below don't sponsor us. They send us their men.

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They send us their men

Networks, charities and communities across the UK point men towards Hard As Nails. They're trusting us with people who trust them.

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We walk them through November

Six weeks with painted nails. Honest conversations, a national experiment, and a lot of men finding out they were never the only one.

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We send them home

Not back to nothing. Last time, our men asked each other where to go next and we had nowhere concrete to point them. This page is the answer to that.

I want a space to talk

Whether something is weighing heavily on you or you would simply like to speak more openly, these organisations offer places where you can talk and be heard.

ANDYSMANCLUB

Free, peer-led talking groups where men aged 18 and over can speak openly about whatever is happening in their lives, without judgement or pressure.

Groups meet across the UK every Monday at 7pm, except bank holidays, with online groups also available. You do not need a referral or appointment and can talk as much or as little as you choose.

ANDYSMANCLUB is peer-led and does not provide immediate or professional mental health support.

CALM

Free, confidential and anonymous support for anyone aged 18 or over who is struggling, affected by suicide or worried about someone else.

CALM's helpline and webchat are available across the UK from 5pm to midnight every day, alongside practical information to help you through difficult moments.

Talk Club

Talking and listening groups where men can regularly check in, share what is going on and build their mental fitness alongside other men.

Groups meet in selected locations across the UK and online. Talk Club also offers a free app and additional support for men who want to take the next step.

Mankind

Support for men through some of the hardest things a man can carry, offering a confidential place to talk and be believed.

Support is available by phone and in person, with trained people who understand what men often find hardest to say out loud.

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I want to find my people

Sometimes what we need is not a service, but people who understand. These communities bring men together through fatherhood, shared experience, health, movement and everyday connection.

Communities with wider reach

MAN v FAT

A supportive community for men who want to lose weight, become more active and improve their wellbeing alongside teammates working towards similar goals.

MAN v FAT runs football and non-contact rugby clubs across the UK for men with a BMI of 27.5 or above. Most men join on their own and are placed into a team.

Local communities

Some of the most powerful connections happen close to home. These locally rooted groups offer men a chance to meet, take part and build real relationships around shared experience.

Dad La Soul

A welcoming community for dads and male carers to make friends, talk honestly and feel less alone in the brilliant, difficult and sometimes chaotic reality of fatherhood.

Dad La Soul currently runs dads-only meet-ups and dad-and-child playdates in Worthing, Brighton and Tunbridge Wells. Its events welcome dads, stepdads, grandads, foster dads and other male carers.

Available in: Brighton, Worthing and Tunbridge Wells

Father 2 Father

Mentoring, guidance and practical support for boys, men, fathers and families, helping people navigate fatherhood, relationships, personal challenges and past experiences.

Much of Father 2 Father's current community work is based in London, including programmes in Haringey, with some courses, training and support also available online.

Based mainly in: London, with some online support

Well Run Brum

Free, friendly social runs bringing men together to move, connect and talk about mental wellbeing without pressure.

The group runs regular 5K sessions in Birmingham at a conversational pace, welcoming men of different abilities and levels of running experience.

Available in: Birmingham

I want to explore masculinity and men's health

Perhaps Hard as Nails left you with new questions. These partners offer information, ideas and opportunities to think more deeply about masculinity, wellbeing and the expectations placed upon men.

Progressive Masculinity

Workshops and training that help boys and men question restrictive stereotypes and explore healthier, more positive and inclusive ways of being a man.

Its work is mainly delivered through schools and organisations, creating spaces where boys and men can define masculinity according to their own values.

Not sure where to begin?

You do not need to have the right words or know exactly what you are looking for.

You might want somewhere to talk, a group that shares part of your experience or simply a little more information. Start with whichever organisation feels closest to what you need today.

Need urgent help?

The organisations on this page offer different kinds of support, but not all provide crisis or emergency services.

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.

If you need urgent mental health support in England, call NHS 111 and select option 2.

You can also call Samaritans free on 116 123, at any time of day or night.

Not on this page?

We only list organisations we know and have worked with. That's deliberate. This isn't a directory of everything — it's who actually backs this, which is rather the point of being on it.

We're currently looking for an LGBTQ+ organisation to join them.

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